HI
My name is ellie and recently my lab has died at an old age. I have got over it but my 5yr old daughter hasn't. I have sat her down and explained but she wouldn't listen she still asks for tommy does anybosy think i should get a replacement just yet or should I wit until she has calmed down.
Please reply
Ellie xx

Do you think she doesn't understand or doesn't want to acknowledge it? What did you do with your dog after he died? Did you have him cremated? Do you still have his ashes? Could you consider holding a memorial service but get your daughter involved too?
You should only get another dog when you feel ready for one. This may not necessarily help your daughter. You could always see how your daughter reacts by visiting someone with pups with her.
All the best bereavment is a difficult subject as each person deals with it in their own way.
Bec

Hi
Everybody greives differently I can remember my first dog dying when i was about ten I didnt get over it till we got another dog!
But please dont rush into it you must be ready as well
good luck and im sorry to hear about your dog

Ellie when one of our Labs died my son was only young and I wrote him a poem and drew pictures on it here is the poem hope it helps.

The Magic Ship to Heaven

Climb aboard the magic ship,and soar up to the skies
go through some lovely golden gates
You wont believe your eyes
All your beloved precious pets
Much loved dogs and cats are there
Running jumping having fun
Waiting for you to come and share
this lovely peaceful quiet home
Fields and mountains safe to roam
no fast cars to harm our pets
never any need for Vets
So when you lose your precious friend
You shed your tears but its not the end
for they are with you still you know
in every place where you may go
their love is there just the same
you know they’re here just call their name
and feel the warmth of all their love
come pouring through and through
They went to sleep ‘cause they were tired
But they are watching over you

(G fryer)