
Hi,
First you should contact the AKC (American Kennel Club) for the names and contact numbers for the secretaries of the various Flatcoated Retriever Associations and Clubs in the USA. The secretaries can advise you and would be delighted if you joined them at field and show events. This will give you a better idea about the breed and it's charactoristics. All responsible breeders of the flatcoat will be more than willing to help you find a suitable pup.
Flatcoats are good with children, all my dogs have been great with my kids and with my grandson.
Good luck in your search,
Polly
Foxpath Flatcoated Retrievers