
Well for starters, you absolutely must be able to trust your vet. After close family relationships, a good relationship based on trust between owner and vet is, in my opinion top of the list.
And having had two (one unconfirmed) cases of oral cancer in my hounds, I'd need to be able to rule that out. If the mass is still there, and hurting him, I'd not wait until next Friday but get him back for another examination - the only advantage of seeing a different vet in a multi-vet practice is at least you get a 'second' opinion! I'd have expected him to be on a course of a/bs but I'm not a vet!
I'd not like to say whether your situation is oral cancer, or not, but for sure, I'd expect a vet, especially one who has been treating this problem and done an extraction, to be able to diagnose and treat your dog.
Do you know why other local practices are not accepting new patients..... vets don't usually turn prospective clients away (unlike human dentists and NHS patients!!)