
Very sadly in the animal world, this rarely happens. You might have hoped for an aaah happy reunion, but fact is once an offspring has gone off to a new life, it smells totally different - different surroundings, different food. I'm assuming this puppy hasn't come back for good because your bitch has every right to treat any 'new' dog coming in the way she has. I remember one puppy who came back with his owners to show us how he was developing (that didn't often happen!) and as he came across the doorstep, mum started talking to him and it sounded exactly like how any mum might talk to an offspring - 'where have you been, why didn't you phone or write'.......... truly.
I don't think your bitch was telling him off - in any way other than she might have done with another overly familiar 'intruder'.