
I'd be inclined to get in-person help for this tbh, so they can see body language and establish exactly what's going on. That's quite extreme behaviour just for a bit of excitement! You want someone force-free who doesn't talk about dominance and punishment.
In the meantime, Boundary Games would be a great start to help him learn to stay in one place until released. If you google 'Absolute Dogs Boundary Games', there is a free ebook.