> you do know you are making a rod for your own back with all this sleeping with this one.
Not sleeping with him Jan (only done it for two nights after surgery), when he came to us last August, to reassure him spend time near the other side of the door till he'd settled at night. OK this did involve curling up on the floor with a pillow but have always preferred to remove myself from our dogs/pups sleeping area rather than the other way round, obviously responded at night if he was fretful. but only once been let out & taken to the garden on lead & then back. Yes this was self rewarding but by the nature of what we do, can't have him crying & whining & for the same reason do not want him upstairs.
Since around 6 weeks in he's settled well, no problem during the night but although there have been days he'll go through to 6 or a little later, for sometime he's woken earlier & earlier, scratching the door & again yes at times I do have to respond & we end up in the kitchen with him sleeping & me propped up at the table till OH comes down to start the day.
For those reading this, he'd previously been kept in a house on lead since a pup, sold as two years but closer to 18 months, was filthy, emaciated, alive inside & out, doubtful if he'd ever been walked, when I asked to see him move, a halti was tightened hard & was pulled behind her. He had no experience of grass, leaves, people, birds, cars etc etc & for weeks would just freeze. He hasn't a mean bone in his body, is doing really really well, walks fantastically on lead which we've built up slowly to 3/4 miles a day, use a long line when possible & attending training classes.
Baby gate is a no goer, he'd be looking out on the hall way & stairs.
Yes I do like my bed & only respond when needed & thankfully at the moment that can mean weeks on end without having to but the scratching continues.