
I'm terribly sorry to hear of your pain and grief. Believe me, I know how it feels. You have received good advice here.
I fully agree with those who have pointed out that the moment one breeds their female to a male, one has - by choosing to bring new life into this world - become a breeder. And with all the joys, sorrows and consequences of that.
I have recently composed a small contract which I now ask every puppy-buyer to sign (along with the other paper work) when they pick up their puppy. This contract simply states that no one may breed a litter (which would have no papers) from dogs which come from my kennel and bear my kennel name. Not even a litter "just once, just for fun". With this contract, I recently thwarted ideas in this direction in the minds and imagination of two of my most recent puppy-buyers! They admitted that they were toying with the idea of "making puppies" with their female someday just for fun.
I DO state in the contract, however, that if someone truly desires to breed in all seriousness and is ready to assume all the responsibliities, labor and costs involved, then they must proceed "as follows". What I then stipulate is that they must do what I myself had to do:
study and learn about breeding for a year or two, consult with me, register a kennel name with the FCI, join the breed club, adhere to the breed regulations, have the dog qualified for breeding permission, and consult with me about a proper mate (only with accredited examples of the breed). When I found out about the ideas taking shape in the minds of the two buyers (both with absolutely no experience), I began to ask some questions: Would they be ready to pay around CHF 1'000 for the stud? Would they recognise if the female needed a c-section! Would they be prepared to move, since their apartment would never conform to the demands of the breeding regulations? Quite taken aback, they realised that breeding is far more difficult than they had ever imagined. I didn't even discuss the grief and sorrow which sometimes occur.
I do hope you will enjoy the puppies which remain, and again, I can feel your pain. A few years ago, one of my females had 7 puppies, 5 of which died at birth (c-section), so I went home with only two. I will never forget what that felt like. I wish you well.