> When we go to the park he only wants his aqua kong totally focused on it.
This may well be part of the problem. Toy chasing is a very high-drive, adrenalin-triggering activity and for some dogs - collie types particularly - it can cause behaviours such as car chasing because the adrenalin doesn't get enough time to drop between play sessions, so the dog remains wired to a degree. It's something you can only really identify by stopping chasing games altogether for a decent period of time (e.g. minimum of a month).
My first crazy dog (collie/lab, 100% colliebrain) was a serious car chaser, in her previous home she'd escaped numerous times to go after cars down the middle of the road and I wasn't having any success stopping her when I took her on. At that time I happened to read a blog about the potential effects of too much ball play, and she was utterly focused on hers like yours is. So I stopped it. At home, on walks, anywhere, no ball play allowed at all for a couple of months. The car chasing stopped all by itself and hasn't shown itself again - I just had to gradually reintroduce ball play at a much reduced rate, and reward her for doing other things such as sniffing around, exploring undergrowth etc. When I started to reintroduce the ball I also introduced a 'no more ball' cue (pop it in pocket, tap pocket twice and say 'safe' - took her a while and a lot of patience on my part but she then understood that she would not be getting it any more and it wasn't lost, so she didn't need to search for it).
I had to do the same process for my mali cross on a much larger scale - she got no toys for many months before I could reintroduce them as she was so utterly wired after the tiniest bit of play! She's never been a car chaser but the adrenalin showed itself in other ways - bullying, generally manic behaviour, unable to settle etc.