
Hi,
I think the more you feed by hand the more he will refuse his bowl as he is pushing the boundaries. He will not starve, so I would put the food in the bowl and stand back. If he spills it, he will eat off the floor, this is still better than the hand. I have had a dog go almost a week without eating, but in the end he gave in and ate properly. He is being like a child and trying to get his own way, and the more you give in and hand feed the longer it will take to get him over this. I know it is awful to have a dog that does not eat and you feel as though you want to do anything to get some food into him, but you are playing into his hands. Just be strong as he really will not starve. ( I assume that there is no health reason for him not eating and that he eats happily from the hand) Be strong or else he will walk all over you !!!
I am sure there are more knowledgeable than me that will answer, but this is my opinion.