> I go out into the garden with her. I wouldn't dream of putting her outside on her own at the moment. It is so muddy and wet.
> We gave it a go outside today but it was soooo wet and raining that she just sat down in the wet and did nothing so have decided to abandon it for the time being and continue with the doggie pads.
Perhaps you misunderstand your role in this, some pups need to be be more proactively managed. If she is on a lead you simply keep her moving around the garden until she finds somewhere she is happy to go - if it's raining they'll often choose a spot under a tree or other shelter, or possibly nearer the back door. You can help by taking her to the same spot every time. Once she has marked a spot she'll often be happier to repeat the action in the same place every time. You just have to wait it out, some pups will go quite quickly but others might make you wait outside with them for up to 20 minutes, or more! :)
I used a pee pen for just this reason with my last puppy. This was a small enclosed space, created with puppy panels, that my boy could use every time. I took him outside popped him in his pen and waited, as soon as he performed I'd praise, reward, and then let him bimble around the garden for a quick play. The scent of wee in one place often encourages a reluctant or shy puppy to repeat wee and means that your pup learns to go outside for anyone - even my teenage children had no trouble with this training as the pup cannot get distracted or wander off. It's a godsend when you are still needing to do the dawn toilet visit! I just used a very large golfing type umbrella to give my pup a bit of shelter if it was raining...