
Advocate may need to be used monthly to keep it at bay (I know someone who used it for several years for this issue and if they were late then the skin got worse again)..
It is true to say ti is an immune system issue,a dn the mites only cause problems/proliferate when the immune system is not up to par, often during times of stress (so the accident puberty etc can have triggered it).
Until the immune system improves then all that can really be done ti so deal with symptoms, so the treatments will need to continue until/if the immune system starts to do it's job properly.
Your other points are correct as I understand it.
You should not breed from her and you should inform the breeder so that her parents are not mated with each other again, and not to partners that would produce similar combination of ancestors.