> she is with me every second from when she whacks up to when she goes bed.
You have hit the nail on the head. You have made her over dependent on you, so bedtime is stressful.
That said does she cry throughout the night, or does she settle once your gone. If the later then there is really no problem, but I would work on getting her happier with her won company and being away from you for short periods during the day.
It isn't fair for her to be so wholly emotionally dependent on one person.