
I did have a dog that I didn't bond with immediately. This was almost twenty years ago. I had lost a black Toy Poodle boy that I had bred myself. I was distraught, and even cried while driving to work. I had other dogs, but
needed a Toy Poodle.
I eventually went to a Toy Poodle Championship show. Walked in as the black boys were being judged, and promptly burst into tears! After making enquiries, I went, the following day, to see a pup. Different colour, opposite sex. I felt that was what I needed. After I got her home, I was devastated to find myself thinking 'but I don't love you' and I felt wicked.
Suffice to say, it didn't take long before she wormed her way into my heart. :-)