
yes i have DDB and as i say some stain more than others, most seem to grow through it so she may not always have the tears stains or not as bad anyway. Just get them checked to ensure there is no problem in her eyes...i am sure she is fine :)
As i said previously i found the tear stain products caused more irritation as misty has also said too, so my advise would be to keep them clean and dry thats all.
As for stairs, definately a no no while she is still growing, her joints are under enough stress with her rapid growth, conveniently we live in a bungalow so no stairs which is very handy with my large breeds.