
If you have not had her to training classes I would start now this will help her get over her fear of other dogs, ringcraft classes would be better than obedience, first couple of times there I would just sit with her on my knee and watch then gradually join in, if you explain to the trainers that you do not want to show you are here for socialisation they should help you, there are dogs at our ringcraft who are not shown. Some ringcrafts specialise in small dogs only, but they are harder to find. Have you asked the breeders advice at all.