
My old mutt (14yrs) had all the symptoms of an enlarged prostate/bladder stones but as the vet felt the prostate to be not enlarge he treated for cystitis, with a view to scan/xray dog after 24 hrs if no improvement. The anti-biotics had a major effect in the first 24 hours, so he continued the course and was right as rain :)
It was a very scarey time, I really though he was going to die, puddles of what looked like pure blood were just running from him :(
I think (but am not sure) that several things can cause an enlarged prostate, including hormones (then a castration would be needed), infection, tumors, cyst etc.. So it really depends on what the problem is with the prostate as to how it will be treated/prognosis.
I hope you get some news soon, the waiting must be torture and I hope it is something easily treatable.