
There are many regular members of this forum who like to toss out phrases such as 'in the US' or 'in the UK', while not having been to both countries (and no, Disney World doesn't count as having visited the entire United States) and make very sweeping generalizations. Being a member of a US or UK based forum does not make one an expert on that country's dog care habits.
I am American and have been to the UK several times. I have also been to Paris, France. I can say, having seen it with my own eyes, that yes, these countries seem to be more 'dog friendly' than the average area of the US. I find it fantastic. However, I'm also a realist. In the
areas of the UK that I have visited there are many more desirable locations to let a dog off lead with no worry. There are open fields, foot paths, etc. In my area of the States, w/out driving for 3 hours, there is one semi-desirable area that I
do visit during specific times of the day to let my dog explore freely.
It is on this forum that I have read of the horrible way Americans keep their dogs on lead and have read, on the same token, how horrible it is when your dogs or you are 'attacked' by a dog let allowed off lead by its irresponsible owner. Typically, no one has a happy medium to offer. Would I be expected, because I live in a congested city, to let my dog wander down the sidewalk only so I could say he can walk off lead? Or would I be considered an irresponsible dog owner because I placed him in harm's way? You can't have it both ways.
It is on this forum that I have read that persons who work a full-time job should not be allowed pets. I work a full-time job. I have adjusted my schedule so that, when I was divorced, I began to work at night when my dog would normally be asleep. I also either come home 4 hours into my shift or make arrangements for my dog to be let out. I shouldn't have a dog then? Why? Because its not a situation you would have for your dog? That makes it a personal opinion, not fact.
It is on this forum that I have read Americans use crates irresponsibly, bordering on cruelly. Who are you to be the spokesman for the Americans? I am American and don't profess to be a spokesman for all of America. If we do use crates, and you don't agree with them, our reasons for crating then become excuses. Yet, its acceptable to some of you to use them for showing and/or travelling. Or for an hour. Or for three. Or for feeding. Or when a dog is sick. These are not excuses, these are reasons. Because you're not American? Or because you change your opinion to suit whom you're replying to?
I have a dog that is destructive. When I am not home. How would you have me correct his behavior if it occurs when I'm not available to supervise? Should I have not taken this
adult dog into my home because of his poor behavioral training? Should I let him wander the house, destroying at will because crates are cruel? It is just an excuse, afterall, or would I be seen as irresponsible for putting his life in harm's way?
I have a dog that is blind. When I'm not home and she can't hear me, feel me, smell me, she gets very anxious. The only place she feels comfortable and safe during these times is in her crate. Should I let her wander the house at night bumping into walls and furniture because she's pacing and anxious? Her being mentally sound in her crate is just an excuse.
I have ripped up a houseful of carpetting to accomodate an incontinent dog while his medications were sorted. Was this irresponsible? I have made more accomodations that I will list in this post for my dogs, past and present. Does this make me irresponsible? Because I work a full-time job, which btw, takes me a 5 minute drive to get to and from, I choose to have no social life in order that my dogs are not home alone more than absolutely necessary. Does this make me irresponsible? Or perhaps it makes me un-American?
It's unfortunate to come to a forum where some people do seem to have a bit of common sense about them and read 'in America', 'the Americans', etc. and then go on to read that your experience of Americans are through a computer screen. Then to say 'I'm not making generalizations'. I would invite any member here to visit our forum and read what the 'Americans' say in response to crate training questions. In response to dominance theories.
When you know me, you can profess to speak for me. Not before then.