I'm so sorry about it all :( I can't imagine living in such fear as your family is just now.

If there is any option, can you move right away and kind of make a new start? If it's possible it might save your sanity....

Lindsay
xx

tom went to work tonight :( hes worried about money and paying hes bills ,just had phone call hes colapsed !!!

This must be such a nightmare for you all. I hope your son is OK. I might get shot for this, but is there anyone experienced that could take on mum and the pups for you until it is over. I wouldn't imagine the stressful atmosphere will be doing them any good and it would be one less worry for you. Big hugs to you all and I hope things get better quickly.

get him back to a/e asap if he collapsed.

following this thread completely, and I hope you are holding up.  There is so much going on right now, I bet you are in a daze.  I do hope your son is ok, and that he is back in the hospital getting treated for his collapse.  I wish I could do more for you, other than send prayers and keep you in my thoughts. 

(((((((hugs)))))))))

> I might get shot for this, but is there anyone experienced that could take on mum and the pups for you until it is over.

Wouldn't get shot by me.  It was in my thoughts too.  I even looked to see if I could find out how far away she was.  I would be more than happy to take some of the load in these circumstances.

Hi bless u for that jeanSW ,you made me cry ,(((hugs))) xxxx

Hi crespin im holding up the best i can ,i feel sick all the time ,stress is not good ,..thanku so much ((hugs)) xx

goldiemad bless you i think it is afecting della she seems very quite and we are tryin so hard to stay calm around her and the babys ,but she knows us and we know her ,,she knows all isnt well here and its breaking my heart :( xxx((hugs))

Hi briedog ive just got back from AE ,tom has collapsed because of head injery he as come home with me ,the doc told him its way to soon for him to go back to work !! he needs to be off for 2weeks maybe more , we will help with bills as much as we can ,but money is so tight now ,4vets vists and this ,but thats life and we carry on right? we will have to over come this , the officer is coming back out tomorrow for more statments .

xx

has he had a ct scan of the head and neck.

cannot and willnot go into details but we where down this route 18 years ages a go with far more out come.still going on today.

it will take time for the police to deal the situation.if it gos court . that can take up to 18 months,

Hi briedog he had ct scan on fri night ,police have said its going to tke along time ,

im so sorry to hear this ,and its my worry that this will be the same .xx

re do the scann if he has more problems.weather it cost you or not.it his life at the end of the day.

thanku ,i will !! xx

As many others have said I've been quietly following this thread & haven't quite known what to add but I think you need to know you've got a good virtual support group here on CD.  I can't imagine how upset you must be feeling right now & with the pups also adding to the stress you need a big hug & a tension relieving massage, you need to remain strong so please make sure you're looking after yourself e.g. eating properly etc.  It might be the last thing on your mind right now but please ensure you are eating properly & if possible getting enough sleep.

I don't know anything about your pups but could you have a quiet word with any of the new owners, see if they can help out at all?  If it were me as a potential new owner I'd love the chance to spend extra time with the pup & see how he/she develops.  I appreciate you may not want to share this ordeal with the whole world but it might help ease the stress levels a little.

I truly hope you family overcome this ordeal safely & quickly, please let us know if there is anything at all we can help with.  So much advice & people ready to give it without being judgemental.

Take care white lilly, my thoughts are with you & your family at this difficult time xx

Hi gembo ,thanku im eating bits but carnt get that sick feeling go ,if the pups were older id ask their new family if theyd like to give a hand but thier only 12days and id be way to worried about infection witch would make me more worried :( but it was good idea and i thanku xxx

omg  i have just read your post im so sorry to hear whats happened keep strong and i will be thinking of you xx

hope everything has been sorted, have a hot cup of tea, a creme egg, on the sofa with a duvet and look at your lovely puppies and im sure you will feel much better

Oh dear i am so sorry to hear this, i hope that thug gets what he deserves because thats horrible!! I hope you and your son come out the other side together and much stronger :)

Hi Joanne, was just wondering how you, your son and family are doing?  I was a bit worried that we hadn't heard from you.  I hope you're all ok.

Simone

Hi simone ,we are doing good now thankyou , hes still stayin here ,and his face is healing well :) ....tom dropped all charges but i do understand why !!, he just wants to try and put it behind him and get on with it ,his 1st day back at work today ,hubby will be getting him later as he dont want to walk home (understandable) times a healer and im sure in time we can look back and not feel sick :( ....but fore me i beleive what goes around comes around ;)

thanku for thinking about us ((hugs))

joanne xx

Hi Joanne, I'm glad he's doing ok.  I can completely understand why he dropped the charges.  I'm sure it's not what he wanted to do, but given the circumstances I think he's done the right thing.

Sending you cyber hugs to keep you strong.

Simone x :)